NATIONAL LEAGUE OF FAMILIES

OF AMERICAN PRISONERS AND MISSING IN SOUTHEAST ASIA

1005 NORTH GLEBE ROAD, SUITE 170, ARLINGTON, VIRGINIA 22201

PH (703) 465-7432               www.powmialeague.org               FAX (703) 465-7433

 

CANDLELIGHT CEREMONY GUIDE

 

 

Commemorative Candlelight Ceremonies honoring American POWs and MIAs should be dignified and simple, involving POW/MIA families, returned POWs and appropriate active-duty personnel (particularly on military installations), veterans, civic leaders and other concerned Americans.  The Secretary of Defense regularly issues directives to the Service Secretaries suggesting military support for and participation in such ceremonies as part of responsible public awareness on the POW/MIA issue.

 

Invitations should be sent to state and local dignitaries, veteran leaders in the area and all POW/MIA family members for whom addresses are available.  If the service is being held on a military installation, the base and/or wing commander, executive officer and chaplain should be invited to participate, and all base personnel should be invited to attend.

 

Programs:  Simple, printed programs should be provided.  Blank church bulletins are available at religious bookstores.  The program can be typed on a single sheet of 8 ½ x 11 standard paper and folded, for printing at any quick-copy establishment.  Military bases, posts and stations, local businesses or area veterans and civic groups may be willing to co-sponsor the event, print the program and assist with publicity prior to the service.  The LeagueÕs logo, or a tasteful drawing and calligraphic message depicting faith and determination, can be reproduced to form the programÕs cover.

 

Special Music:  Some suggested hymns and patriotic music are:  ÒAmazing Grace,Ó ÒHow Great Thou Art,Ó ÒBring Him HomeÓ (from the musical ÒLes MiserablesÓ), ÒLet My People Go,Ó ÒAmerica,Ó ÒThe Star Spangled Banner,Ó ÒThe Battle Hymn of the RepublicÓ and ÒGod Bless America.Ó  As music may vary according to region, discretion is requested in selecting music that reflects positively on the issue and the LeagueÕs position that Americans may still be alive in Southeast Asia, i.e. no funeral dirges.  Sheet music should be available from local music stores.

 

Candles:  Candles with drip guards should be provided to each attendee upon entering.  Contact a candle distributor and request the candles and drip guards be donated, sold at cost or seek a contribution for this purpose.  If such assistance is provided, be sure to mention the company or contributor in the printed program.  Candles may be collected following the ceremony or attendees may be requested to relight the candle during their Sunday meal, again remembering our POW/MIAs in prayer.


SAMPLE PROGRAM

COMMEMORATIVE CANDLELIGHT CEREMONY

 

 

PRELUDE                                         Organist/Pianist/Other

 

INVOCATION                                  Chaplain/Minister

 

NATIONAL ANTHEM/PLEDGE      Soloist/Chorus/Choir

                                                         OF ALLEGIANCE

 

SCRIPTURE*                                    POW/MIA relative, returned POW, veterans/civic leader

 

SPECIAL MUSIC                              Soloist/Chorus/Choir

 

SPEAKER/MESSAGE                       Chaplain/Minister, returned POW, military or other special guest

                                                                                               

LIGHTING OF CANDLES                (can include roll call of stateÕs POW/MIAs)

 

SPECIAL MUSIC                              Soloist/Pianist/Other

 

PRAYER                                           Chaplain/Minister

                                                         (can be followed by silent prayer)

 

SPECIAL MUSIC                              Soloist/Chorus/Choir

 

BENEDICTION                                 Chaplain/Minister

 

POSTLUDE                                      Organist/Pianist/Other

 

*The text of Jeremiah 31: 16-17 is particularly meaningful to POW/MIA families and is most often used in commemorative services:

 

 ÒThus saith the Lord, Refrain thy voice from weeping and thine eyes from tears; for thy work shall be rewarded saith the Lord; and they shall come again from the land of the enemy, And there is hope in thine end, saith the Lord, that thy children shall come again to their own border.Ó

 

NOTE:   Of special significance is the ÒMissing Man Honors CeremonyÓ which incorporates the official covers of the Army, Navy, Marine Corps, Air Force and Coast Guard, plus a civilian cap, placed prominently to symbolize those absent due to still being POW/MIA, missing from our nationÕs wars.